As I was reading a post on Dark Pretty Fun (Sss) blog, http://darkprettyfun.blogspot.com/, I realize I was reading a subject I hadn't read about in a very long time. She was talking about not being able to tolerate her clit being stimulated. I was very happy to see it, because my spouse is the same way. Sss asked her followers if they thought this was normal? Well, you know me I jumped right in. I have done some research on it many years ago because when I first got married, I found out my spouse couldn't tolerate being touch on her clit. Wanting to please, I hit the books for info. The verdict was she was different then most, but normal... After years together, I never gave it much thought because its a normal everyday thing for us. But after seeing the question on Sss blog, I'm curious on how many woman are like my spouse, and how many woman really know about it.
Usually I would run to my friend Ronnie at Heart and soul, http://ronniesoul.blogspot.com/, and let her put the female question out there. After all, I'm a male who write poetry. But this time I'm going to ask the question myself, (no I'm not bored) and I hope my followers or even a passer by will jump in.
I actually have two questions, which are: Are your clitoris very sensitive to touch_ or not? And for those who use a vibrator, have you notice it being harder for you to climax without a vibrator, after using one of the new more powerful vibrators for a period of time? (curious mind) I think the sensitive clt-tis are out there, but quiet in the background. And people who write erotic stories and poems (including myself), make it harder on those who are clit sensitive. I do know it is normal, but I guess I get caught up like most with the clit and orgasm thing when I'm writing. But I do write about the wondrous deep lick orgasm too, ( I wonder why? lol) but not as much as I really should.. BAD POET... :) ... Maybe I should put a pole up for the silent crowd... Nah, let them speak up and let us know about it... OK- Enlighten me ladies and gents with your wonderful answers-or not..
1manview,
ReplyDeleteI've never used a vibrator. Why would I need one when I've got Daddy?! Also, I like gentle clitoral stimulation (he uses his tongue). Mmmmmm! That's the best:)!!!
Love,
Kitty
And I thought you didn't use a vibrator because of all that gushing wound just short the dang thing out... (laughing!) Thanks for the input Kitty...
DeleteAfter extended clitoral stimulation...whether it is with my vibe, or tongue, or fingers, or his cock...Yes, my clit can become very sensitive...sometimes so much so that just the slightest touch is enough to either send me over the edge, OR, make me want to scream, don't touch me there...well don't touch me there YET anyway LOL
ReplyDeleteAfter constant and/or prolonged use with my vibe, I find it is the same thing. The slightest/barest touch of it against my clit is enough to make me want to either keep going...or move it away. LOL
Great question, IMan...I will check back. It will be interesting to read others responses.
Hope you're having a great weekend.
Fondly, Sky
Thank you sky, I was happy to see your input. I google over sensitive clitoris just to see what came up. It was very interesting. One lady said she was so sensitive, she could squeeze her thighs together and have an orgasm. Talk about a cheap date... :) Just playing.. I would hate to see her walk here downtown on a windy day...
DeletePeace be within you Sky,
1Manview
1manview,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for linking to my blog. I appreciate it. :-)
Since I already posted about it, it seems a bit redundent to say that I have a super sensitive clit and can only be touched on the sides of it and even then very softly. Once I get going, it can be harder, but still to the side.
I have heard many women comment that they cannot cum without a virbrator. I am not sure if that is because of the vibrator use though.
Great post.
You are welcome Sss.. I can answer that question. A definitely no. Some woman can not achieve an orgasm without a form of manual stimulation. I have dated someone like that, plus I did a lot of reading when I dated someone who could not achieve an orgasm at all. There also was a discussion on Ronnie's blog. (Heart and soul) I had asked the question about why all the articles I read, it said more woman did not achieve an orgasm then those who did. 51% could not vs 49% that could. And of that 49% , only 39% could have a vaginal orgasm. The rest had to have direct clit stimulation to orgasm The numbers change on each article I read, but the none orgasmic, was always higher. So why was I reading about all these woman having orgasms on their blogs, and not one said she couldn't. It seems the majority felt like they were not normal and stayed quiet. Kind of like the over sensitive ones. Like I stated on your blog, you were the first I read who said she was over sensitive. Thank you Sss, for visiting and joining in...
DeleteAs I posted over on Sss's blog, I had a vibrator once. The vibrations were too much for me, and I definitely noticed a lack of sensitivity after using it. It made it more difficult for manual stimulation to even begin to feel good - and the vibration never felt that good to me in the first place.
ReplyDeleteManual only now, (with a few non-vibrating toys), and couldn't be happier.
Hello Conina, that you for joining the discussion. And yes, I have read woman saying they gave up their vibrators for the same reason as yourself. But then we have plenty of vibrator junkies out there. But that's a another discussion... :)
DeleteTell it out to the world, my Clit is very, very sensitive! Other then that I'm pretty much a normal girl. I have multiple orgasm, I cream heavily when it he does it just right. I even think I enjoy a pulsating cock inside me more the a none sensitive Clit person. When I'm hot and horny, I can cum just from him holding a still pulsating cock deep inside me, I can feel it's vibrations penetrating my Clit, then boom!
ReplyDeleteJust don't ruin it and touch my Clit.
Now that's the problem, de-tuning these guys from the Clit spot. Almost every guy thinks he's the one who can make me enjoy Clit stimulation. No, you can-not!. I have nipped the tip of dicks, pull out hair by the root, to stress the point "leave the Clit alone". But if you just like dealing out pain, I will give you pain in return.
My last boyfriend was like that. At first he was all ears, learned how to take me into outer space, but every now and then would resort to clit action. Well, I guess he got tired of hearing me saying no and went were no man should dare. He had me shaking and baking then hungry attack my Clit. I screamed in pain, I tried to push him off me, but he was determine to show me he was the best of the best. I pushed my nails into his face, (that's want I get for having short nails), I called out his mother name, but he kept going, finally after a patch of his perfect kept hair flew into the hair, he got the message, leave the Clit alone! He was always telling me how unique my pussy was as it squeezed the life out of his cock, but why he couldn't just believe my Clit was unique too.
I have a new boyfriend. He has learned the lower the lick, the harder I buck. He has even figured out by using a small wedge pillow under my hips, it made it easier for him to lick me low, and relieve the stress on his neck, which happen to give me even more pleasure. I came so hard the first time he tried it, I almost fainted. He has also learned to take the tip of his pulsating cock and swirl it slowly on my folds when I'm coming, sending me pass the moon and the stars. After I beg, he shoots that big fat cock deep inside me, and I start coming all over again.
So having a sensitive Clit is no big deal to me. It's normal good sex for all, just don't touch the ^%#@ Clit! :)
Thanks 1manview, interesting post...
Thank you Poetic Estrus, never gave the wedge pillow a thought. My spouse is clit sensitive too. A strain neck is common, I tried a regular pillow, but they were too soft...
DeleteBy accident we found out that once she orgasm, with her clit covered with a thick terry cloth towel, I could gently rub her clit and keep her orgasm rolling...
Un abrazo y mil besos..
ReplyDeleteBehind with my reading:) Interesting question.
ReplyDeleteAfter stimulation with either tongue or hand I can become very sensitive. Prefer tongue though. Don't use a vibrator - no need.
Thanks for the mention 1manview.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
Hi Ronnie, i knew you were busy so I did this question myself. Thank you for the input, and I try to give my friends a shout out whenever I can :)
DeleteI'm with Sky. What she said.
ReplyDeleteSweets, the number of woman who become sensitive after being stimulated has caught me off guard. I knew of it, but never heard so many say it. Even most of the female novelist I read, never hardly mention it. (I read a lot of Zane) It's as if the clit is always ready. It seems your clits are more like men bigger clits, they can get very sore after prolong use...
DeleteThanks for the input..
Assunto por demais interessante! Pena que eu não domine a língua pra entender tudo o que, aqui, foi falado...
DeletePosso dizer, apenas, que logo após eu gozar no clitóris, tenho de dar um tempo antes de gozar de novo... Quanto ao uso de vibradores, recentemente, de uns meses pra cá, resolvi fazer uso de um, que se adequa muito bem a esta função e confesso, que provoca mais sensações ainda do que somente o uso da língua ou dedo do parceiro!
Sinto muito se não respondi ou não entendi a pergunta inicial!
Kisses!
Helô
Helo response translated....
DeleteSubject too interesting! Too bad I did not master the language to understand all that, here was talking ...
I can say only that I enjoy after the clitoris, I have to take time before you come again ... Regarding the use of vibrators, recently, a few months back here, I decided to use one that is well suited to this role and I must confess, that causes even more feelings than just the use of language or finger Partner! Sorry if not answered or not understood the original question! Kisses! Helo
Muito obrigado Helô,
ReplyDeleteVocê entende a questão apenas para a direita, e obrigado por seus comentários ...
Um grande abraço
1Manview
every woman has a sensitivity in the clitoris. when we touch, we explore, we discover the right way to give us pleasure. it's nice to find a man who knows how to handle with fingers and tongue and take the woman to heaven. but we women, we must touch us, know us. unless we do, we can not say we like.
ReplyDeletekisses in your heart, my friend!
Nancy C. so wonderful to see you as always. Thank you for your comment. And yes, if a woman doesn't know what pleases her, how are we to know...
DeleteKisses my friend,
1ManView
I'm capable of multiples from clitoral manual and vibrators however the left side of my clit only is overly sensitive to the point of pain.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous, thank you for joining in. You have added something new to the topic...
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